Shiur on Halachot of Kiddushin/Erusin - Shiur #6 Even Haezer Siman 32, Siman 33 Saif 1, Siman 34 Saifim 1-2.
Mekadesh with a שטר (shtar), Kiddushin with Bia, Rama: if two singles sleep with each other choshesh to kiddushin, Aruch Hashulchan (SK 11), Rambam (Gerushin 10:19), Rav Ben Haim's explanation of the Rambam/machloket, Civil Marriages / Reform Weddings: Rav Henkin [Rabbi Yosef Eliyahu Heinkin] (Ha-Pardes 37:7), Rav Moshe Feinstein (Igrot Moshe EH 1: 74,75,76),
